{"id":94,"date":"2025-10-15T13:30:29","date_gmt":"2025-10-15T13:30:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/?p=94"},"modified":"2025-10-15T13:30:29","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T13:30:29","slug":"ego-unutulmus-isigin-cocugu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/?p=94","title":{"rendered":"EGO: UNUTULMU\u015e I\u015eI\u011eIN \u00c7OCU\u011eU"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bir zamanlar bir \u00e7ocuk vard\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Saf, parlak, merakla dolu.<br>Kalbinde d\u00fcnya kadar cesaret,<br>g\u00f6zlerinde ise hen\u00fcz incinmemi\u015f bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sonra bir g\u00fcn, biri g\u00fcld\u00fc.<br>Biri susturdu.<br>Biri dedi ki:<br>\u201cSen fazla hayal kuruyorsun.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o an, \u00e7ocuk k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve kalbinin i\u00e7inden bir ses do\u011fdu: ego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O, seni korumak i\u00e7in do\u011fdu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kalbin fazla yumu\u015fakt\u0131 bu d\u00fcnya i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego k\u00f6t\u00fc de\u011fildir\u2026<br>sadece yorulmu\u015f bir \u00e7ocuktur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Z\u0131rh gibi konu\u015fur,<br>\u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e sevilmemekten korkar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kibirle parlar,<br>\u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir zamanlar parlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in cezaland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Her \u201cben bilirim\u201d c\u00fcmlesinin ard\u0131nda<br>\u201cbeni art\u0131k dinle\u201d diyen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ses sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego, unutulmu\u015f \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n n\u00f6bet\u00e7isidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sen onu susturmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a,<br>daha \u00e7ok ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o bilmez:<br>sen art\u0131k g\u00fcvendesin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve belki de ona bunu hat\u0131rlatman gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cArt\u0131k saklanmana gerek yok.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o an, ego \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcr\u2026<br>Ve geriye \u00e7ocuk kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayal kurmak isteyen,<br>inanmak isteyen,<br>yeniden ba\u015flamak isteyen o saf yan\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego\u2019nun hayali,<br>senin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ger\u00e7e\u011fidir asl\u0131nda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kibir, bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f cesaretin maskesidir.<br>Kontrol, unutulmu\u015f g\u00fcc\u00fcn yank\u0131s\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Onu su\u00e7lama\u2026<br>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o sadece seni hayatta tutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama art\u0131k hayatta kalman gerekmiyor.<br>Art\u0131k ya\u015fayabilirsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego\u2019yu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek demek,<br>o \u00e7ocu\u011fu yeniden elinden tutmak demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Onu su\u00e7lamak yerine,<br>sadece \u201cgel\u201d de.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cArt\u0131k g\u00fcvendeyiz.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O an, kibir yerini tevazua b\u0131rak\u0131r.<br>Savunma, anlay\u0131\u015fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve sen fark edersin:<br>Ego asl\u0131nda senin d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n de\u011filmi\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O, \u00f6z\u00fcne giden en insani k\u00f6pr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve k\u00f6pr\u00fcden ge\u00e7ti\u011finde,<br>kendi \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nla bulu\u015fursun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir zamanlar bir \u00e7ocuk vard\u0131\u2026 Saf, parlak, merakla dolu.Kalbinde d\u00fcnya kadar cesaret,g\u00f6zlerinde ise hen\u00fcz incinmemi\u015f bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k. Sonra bir g\u00fcn, biri g\u00fcld\u00fc.Biri susturdu.Biri dedi ki:\u201cSen &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=94"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":95,"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94\/revisions\/95"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=94"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=94"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dolunayozbek.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=94"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}